People who are new to long-lasting products often make the mistake of "going big and wanting it all." They always think that buying something advertised to delay for an hour or even longer, or something more expensive, must be the best. In reality, this industry runs deep. Many so-called "potent" products are often built on excessive amounts of local anesthetics (like lidocaine). After using them, you not only lose sensation, but you might even experience allergies or discomfort for your partner. If you're trying topical endurance products for the first time, it's recommended to start with products that have gentle ingredients and a solid reputation.
I paid my fair share of tuition back in the day, buying those cheap street-stall products for a few dozen yuan. They'd burn when sprayed and fail when it mattered most. Later, I summed up a rule: when choosing a product, look at the ingredients first, then the experience. Take Men's Delay Spray Japanese Marunai 15ml Classic Edition, for example. It's been consistently popular in the community because it follows a herbal formula route. While its delay effect isn't the hardcore type that "turns you into a log," it wins on comfort and suits most beginners.
How do you identify a reliable product? First, check the anti-counterfeit measures. Nowadays, legitimate topical endurance products basically all come with independent anti-counterfeit codes. Never buy from those shady shops with no credentials. In terms of price, a single bottle from a reputable brand on the market typically ranges from 150 to 300 yuan. Anything under 100 yuan is likely a poorly made white-label product with unknown ingredients and huge risks. If you're on a tight budget, you could consider a classic like German Black Diamond. Its cost-effectiveness is well-known in the industry.
When it comes to usage, the thing beginners overlook most is the "lead time." Many people think they can spray and go right away, but most sprays need time for the skin to absorb, usually recommended 20-40 minutes in advance. When spraying, focus on the coronal sulcus area, where the sensitive nerves are most concentrated. Don't overdo it. For your first try, it's recommended to spray 1-2 times and stop once you feel it's enough. Never think more spray means longer duration—overdoing it will only leave you completely numb.
Also, on avoiding pitfalls, I previously wrote a dedicated pitfall avoidance guide that breaks down the differences between various ingredients in detail. If you have more questions about delay products, like whether to choose a spray or an essence, you can also check out this test analysis of maca essence to compare the sensory differences across different textures.
Safety is always the top priority. If you have a history of skin sensitivity, or if your partner is pregnant, be very cautious before using. If you must use it, remember to wash it off 15 minutes before intimate activity, or use a condom throughout. That's not just being responsible for yourself—it's also respect for your partner. Don't ignore the body's subsequent reactions for the sake of a moment of pleasure.
Finally, here are a few purchasing tier suggestions:
Remember, these products are just aids. True endurance still comes from daily exercise. Don't pin all your hopes on bottles and jars. Maintaining good sleep habits and a workout routine is the long-term solution.