Brothers, let me give you some advice—when it comes to buying delay sprays, don't be like me back in the day and pay your tuition fees without knowing what you're doing. The pitfalls I've stepped into and the money I've wasted could open a small convenience store. Today, as someone who's been through it all, I'm going to break down the most common mistakes newbies make, especially when it comes to popular products like Gulong Spray—the Gulong Men's Delay and Stamina Spray, a genuine aid for intimacy—as well as other topical stamina liquids, so you can choose wisely, use them well, and not be a sucker.
Pitfall #1: Chasing Cheap Deals and Ending Up with Fakes or Products of Unknown Origin
This is the number one most common mistake newbies make, bar none!
How to spot it?
Those online listings with absurdly low prices—like a few dozen yuan per bottle, with free shipping and buy-one-get-N-free "miracle delay pills"—are basically all fakes or unregulated products. Legitimate delay sprays have strict cost controls and quality requirements from R&D to production to sales. Think about it: if they were really that cheap and effective, pharmacies would be selling them like crazy. There'd be no room for those obscure little shops.
The dangers of fakes are no joke. At best, they don't work and you waste money. At worst, they may contain excessive anesthetics or even unknown chemical ingredients. Long-term use can harm your health, cause allergies, redness and swelling, or even affect sensitivity—definitely not worth it. Worse still, they can disrupt the flora balance in intimate areas and cause infections.
How to avoid it?
1. Stick to legitimate channels: Always buy from officially authorized, reputable e-commerce platforms, brand flagship stores, or licensed pharmacies. Products like Gulong Spray typically have official authorized sales channels.
2. Watch the price range: Take Gulong for example—genuine Gulong Spray on the market usually costs around 100-300 yuan per bottle, depending on volume and promotions. If it's far below that, be suspicious. Some imported brands, like German EROS or Black King Kong Spray, may be priced higher, but their quality and safety are better guaranteed.
3. Check packaging and anti-counterfeit features: Genuine products usually have finely printed packaging with clear production dates, batch numbers, ingredient lists, manufacturer info, and more. Many brands provide anti-counterfeit codes that can be verified through official channels. After receiving your order, check this information right away and scan the code to verify authenticity.
Pitfall #2: Blindly Chasing "Maximum Strength" and "No Numbness," Only to Get the Opposite Effect
Lots of newbies start off asking: "Which one's the strongest? Which one has zero numbness?" I totally get that mindset—who doesn't want great results without killing the sensation? But more often than not, this kind of pursuit leads you straight into a trap.
How to spot it?
Some products on the market claim "pure plant-based, no numbness, lasts 40+ minutes," yet they're dirt cheap. Brothers, doesn't that sound a little too good to be true?
The principle behind delay sprays is mainly to reduce sensitivity through local anesthesia, thereby achieving a delay effect. The mainstream active ingredients on the market are lidocaine, benzocaine, or certain plant extracts with astringent or stimulating properties. Products that are completely "numbness-free" and still significantly delay—either it's exaggerated marketing, the effect is negligible, or they're using unknown ingredients.
Over-pursuing "no numbness" might lead you to buy products with barely any effect, wasting your money. Over-pursuing "maximum strength" might cause excessive numbness, affect erection hardness, or make your partner uncomfortable—actually ruining the intimate experience.
How to avoid it?
1. Know the ingredients: Before buying, carefully check the ingredient list. If it contains lidocaine or benzocaine, it works through local anesthesia. If it claims to be pure plant-based, look at which plant extracts are used and do a little research on whether they actually have delay effects. You can check out this article to learn more about delay spray pitfalls.
2. Choose gentle formulas: For newbies, choosing products with mild ingredients and good reviews is more reliable. Legitimate products like Gulong Spray usually balance effectiveness and comfort. For first-time use, start with the smallest amount—like 1-2 sprays—and observe the results and sensation.
3. Take it step by step: Don't expect to achieve "ironclad stamina" on your first try. Delay sprays work differently for everyone, and it takes a few attempts to find the right dosage and method for you. In my experience, being able to extend by 10-20 minutes and satisfy both partners is already pretty good. Chasing excessive duration can sometimes kill the pleasure and turn it into a "routine chore."
Pitfall #3: Using It Wrong—Effectiveness Plummets or Discomfort Ensues
Even a great product needs to be used correctly, otherwise it's a waste of something good. I had a few unpleasant experiences myself because of improper use.
How to spot it?
Many people grab the spray and just start spraying without even glancing at the instructions. The result is either no effect, overwhelming numbness, or even affected erections. Common mistakes include: spraying the wrong area, using too much, not washing in time, or proceeding immediately after spraying.
How to avoid it?
1. Read the instructions carefully: I can't stress this enough! Each product's formula and recommended usage may differ slightly. Gulong Men's Delay and Stamina Spray typically recommends spraying on the coronal sulcus area—the most sensitive region—but for specific dosage and wait time, always follow the instructions.
2. Start with a small dose: For first-time use, spray 1-2 times, spread evenly, and wait 15-30 minutes for full absorption. After that, you can wash it off or leave it on (check the product instructions—some are water-soluble and washing doesn't affect effectiveness). If the result isn't ideal, you can slightly increase the dose next time, but don't spray too much at once. I once sprayed three or four times right off the bat—ended up so numb I couldn't feel anything, and even my hardness was affected. Total nightmare.
3. Application area: Usually spray on the glans and coronal sulcus, avoiding the urethral opening. Some products may suggest a small amount on the shaft, but the main focus should be on the most sensitive areas.
4. Test beforehand: Before first use, spray a small amount on a sensitive skin area like the inner forearm to check for allergic reactions. Even though legitimate products undergo strict testing, individual differences still exist.
5. Communicate with your partner: This is the most important part! Delay sprays are meant to enhance intimacy for both partners, not for your solo "performance." Talk to your partner beforehand so she knows you're making an effort and can cooperate better. If she feels numb or uncomfortable, or has other concerns, adjust accordingly. After all, communication is the foundation of a harmonious intimate relationship. You can also check out other users' delay spray experiences for reference.
Pitfall #4: Ignoring Personal Constitution and Safety Issues
Although delay sprays are for external use, safety issues should never be ignored. I have a friend who almost got into trouble because he didn't pay attention.
How to spot it?
If you have a history of skin allergies, genital inflammation, heart disease, high blood pressure, or other underlying conditions, and you ignore the contraindications for these products, you're essentially playing with fire.
How to avoid it?
1. Know the contraindicated groups: If you have broken skin on the penis, balanitis, or similar conditions, do not use delay sprays, as they can irritate and worsen infections. Those allergic to product ingredients should also avoid them.
2. Consult a doctor: If you have serious heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, or other chronic conditions, or if you're taking other medications, be sure to consult a doctor or pharmacist before considering any intimacy aid. Although topical products have low absorption, being cautious never hurts.
3. Choose legitimate brands: Legitimate brands like Gulong Spray clearly list contraindications and precautions on their instructions—a sign of responsibility to consumers. Those unregulated products often list nothing at all, which is a huge risk.
Summary and Buying Recommendations
After all this, I just want to tell you: when choosing Gulong Men's Delay and Stamina Spray, a genuine aid for intimacy, or other topical stamina liquids, the core is three things: authenticity, suitability, and safety.
Tiered recommendations by budget and needs:
* Entry-level (budget 100-200 yuan): You can choose entry-level options from domestic brands like Gulong Spray. They typically offer stable results at an affordable price, suitable for first-time users or those who don't need extreme delay. The key is to buy from official channels and avoid fakes.
* Intermediate (budget 200-400 yuan): At this price point, you can choose mid-to-high-end series from reputable domestic brands, or entry-level options from some imported brands like German EROS. They may focus more on comfort in their formulas, reducing numbness, or offer improvements in packaging and user experience. A good choice for users with some experience who want a better experience.
* High-end (budget 400+ yuan): For those seeking the ultimate experience or with special needs, consider high-end imported brands like Black King Kong Spray. These products often have unique advantages in ingredient ratios, absorption speed, and gentleness, striving to maximize pleasure while delaying. But be equally wary of fakes—high price points are a breeding ground for counterfeits.
Remember, no product is a magic bullet. Delay sprays are just auxiliary tools. The core of intimacy lies in communication, understanding, and emotional investment from both partners. I hope my experience helps you avoid detours and enjoy more good times. Wishing everyone a harmonious and fulfilling intimate life!